Everything is going great for you now and your relationship is good
yohhh everything you’ve said is exactly what my guy is doing!! everything. what surprises me is that why is still telling me that we gonna fix things and still want have sex with me. I asked him if he’s sure that we still moving ahead by fixing our relationship and he said he’s gonna think about it.. what could be the problem exactly?
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 yrs off and on. We live together and he also has a freeloader friend who lives here that he spends all his time with and communicates with more salams hesap silme than me. He has been gambling and drinking since his friend has lived here. I told him off because I was hurt from his behavior. I apologize to him for my words he just ignored me. I asked him to his face if he doesn’t love me or like me anymore to tell me so I can move out his response was don’t talk to him right now. And he has been sleeping on the couch. It’s like his friend is his anchor. I don’t know what to do. I’m tired of stress and crying
My name is B and I am in a relationship with a guy I’m madly in love with
The drinking and gambling implies that he suffers from depression, and yes, his friend is his anchor right now. None of this should be taken personally by you. It has nothing to do with you. He is not mentally well right now. The question here is what’s right for you in this situation. Can you accept him the way he is? Do you have patience to wait until he is better? Can you focus on the good in him? If the answers are yes than stay with him, without asking questions r demanding anything. If your inner voice says you can’t accept him, than move on. I hope this helps.
I have a question I have been in a relationship for 6 months it’s a long distance relationship about an hour away.He works mon – sat from 8am until 10pm hours vary. His only day off is Sunday how can I make this relationship work, if he sometimes wants to be at home with his family? Is this selfish of me that I want to see him all the time.We usually see each other on weekends and sometimes we don’t see each other until 2 weeks have passed?We talk about the future,we talk everyday, but it’s bothering me that we can’t see each other more often.We don’t have kids.He doesn’t have a car but when he comes to see me he rents a car and I go visit him as well.
I think that there’s no point to fight the situation. Right now this is what you have, neaning this is all the time you have to see each other. Wanting to see him more is fine, and there’s nothing wrong with it, but what’s the point agonizing about it when it’s just not possible right now? Try not hurt it by slamming in the wall over and over again. Nothing stays the same, they’ll be a time when the circumstances will change and you’ll get everything you want. Right now just focus on what you do have rather than what you don’t have.
I came home to see him on my break from school and we spent a whole week together and one night he told me he loved me
Hi! I desperately need some advice. We met a few years ago when I had a boyfriend. We talked and flirted a little but that was the extent because of my relationship. As soon as that relationship ended we hooked up and started hanging out. I invited him to move in with me where I was going to school, states away. I’m now not in school due to financial reasons, we have no friends except each other, and we don’t really do much because we are always working. Our sex life is great. We do love each other but we have been fighting constantly. I recently found out I was pregnant. Before we confirmed it he kept saying things like “I won’t be upset if you are” and “I think it would be good for us to have a kid” but now it seems he is freaked out or something. I’ve tried asking him what he wants but he just says, you. But I’m not convinced. When we fight we talk about breaking up in the heat of it, but you can tell he doesnt want to do, or be the one to do it anyway. I guess my question is, will we ever go back to being happy the way we were or do you think he’s backing out now that I’m pregnant? He’s 26 and I’m 23 we aren’t THAT young but hes pretty immature still. I just want my sweet affection man back I’m not sure where he’s gone…. -B