Obstacle 3. Girls know that you came there to pick them up
This might be a girl from type two – a girl who went out to hookup with guys, the most desired type for you!
Second type of girl: If she is watching you and smiling, or even better – gossiping about you with her friend – make a move! The story can go one of three ways:
a) You could have misread her signals and the girl wasn’t as into you as you thought. No worries! Don’t take it personally. If you see she’s not interested in conversation, seems bored, don’t invest your time and money on her. Politely say: “It was nice talking to you. e if the girl isn’t as pretty or interesting as she seemed. If you aren’t that into her, find someone else! Walk away and find another, more interesting girl. In the club, time is usually a disadvantage. Pretty girls get tired sooner than you might expect and you can end up in the middle of the dance floor-alone-surrounded by guys!
b) If you came to talk to her and she is even cuter close up and she responds with interest – this is a good sign! If she is clearly flirting with you, touching you from time to time, sending you smiles – she probably wants to get to know you more. Ask if she wants another drink – and if you feel that she isn’t playing you – buy her a drink, but this isn’t the only thing you can do. Be careful here. Unfortunately a lot of girls, especially in expensive clubs, use a few smiles to get free drinks from guys then leave. Follow your intuition. If she is being honest, buy her a drink and go dancing with her. You can also have a chat with her on the sofa in a more intimate place and enjoy the night!
c) This girl seems to be very into you, you find her cute, but she’s difficult to approach. She is friendly, but doesn’t want get too personal and just prefers polite talk. She asks a lot of questions such as: what are you doing in life, where are you from originally, what are your hobbies are, etc. In this case, you are probably approaching the third type of girl, a good girl that wants to find a boyfriend in the club. She likes you and, probably after a few drinks, she would like to make out with you, but her biggest fear is that you only want her for a one-night stand and that you won’t call her after that.
Use your party time wisely, mingle while you are still looking fresh
Especially for the third type of girl, you have to make her feel that you are a good guy (and hopefully you are). Be friendly, but not too touchy. Tell her how great it is getting to spend time with her or how much you enjoy the conversation (even if the main subject was the club or taste datingreviewer.net/pl/randki-z-luka-wiekowa/ in drinks) and how nice it would be to go eat together in a few days. She may know that you intend to treat her as a lady, making her feel comfortable with you.
On the other hand, if you are 100% sure that this is just a one-time thing; it would be cruel to make her think otherwise. Don’t say that tomorrow you are leaving for a few weeks to go somewhere, and that it was great to meet her and that you hope to spend more time with her, later when you get back.